ppppppopz

sometimes i hate it when people call me popz. ok they can say it but i really hope they don't form this impression of me that i have too many friends and so they are not as important. firstly, this argument against me doesn't even hold water because i am nott popz so yeah. next, people often have this mindset that popz people have too many friends so you won't really mean much to them. after all, without you, they still have 23918738461235462 friends so you aren't that significant. some people even rather make friends with less popz people so that they'd be a friend of more significance in their friend's life. idk if this makes sense lol. but anyway i guess you get the drift it's just that people think they mean less to a popz person rather than a normal person because their friendship makes up like 1/50 (normal person) compared to 1/100 (popz person). 

now can i just say that this is totally untrue?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?! ok for me at least. maybe it's because i'm not even popz so like of course it won't be so for me. but at least i don't think so. if you're a friend you're a friend, who cares how many other friends your friend has????? if you're a good friend you'll always mean something to the person, and good friends are not a mutually exclusive thing. just because someone has close friends doesn't mean you won't mean as much to the person because the person has his own friends already. how about saying that the person cherishes his friends a lot and makes the effort to keep in contact with all his friends and thats why seems to have many many friends????? then it makes more sense for you to make friends with the person because he is a friend keeper. 

i'd like to believe that in this lifetime, everyone meets about a similar amount of people. whether you have many friends or not depends on whether you choose to get to know them on a deeper level, keep them close and become friends. i guess it's got to do with priorities in life? if you're a people person naturally you'd keep making friends and talking to people and stuff, and get closer to them. if you're a studies or other stuff kind of person naturally you wouldn't go up to that many people and become close and become obliged to spend time and bond with them, when that time could be used for other things like studying. so it's not that people are popz, it's just that they make the effort/just end up talking to and knowing a lot of people. 

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pretty photoless week this week had to use rubbish for my #100happydays oh well. there were actually potentially nice days to be photographed but lousy me forgot to take so. :<