look on the bright side of things

if i had gone for tour : 

i wouldn't have that extra time to spend with some of my closer friends after school

i wouldn't have gone to llaollao that one day after i got released early from prac

i wouldn't have gone to support my friends at several match supports

i would have skipped many piano lessons = $$$

i wouldn't have even had the opportunity to try whatever i could for my piano exam, despite the bad outcome eventually

i wouldn't have gone for church camp

i wouldn't have had the quality time with some of my best friends

i may have deprived some of them from going since it was a collective decision to go if all of us were going

and thus receiving something from God 

i wouldn't have gone for restore and bought many many nice things 

i wouldn't have made a new friend and find out about many other perspectives in life 

i wouldn't have studied

i wouldn't have grown closer to a friend 

i wouldn't spend father's day in singapore 

i wouldn't have known how much i wanted and loved certain things 

i wouldn't have learnt more about myself